SimpleVastuLuck proposes
‘FORMULA-ONE’
for
HAPPY MARITAL RELATIONSHIP
(ALL IN A NEW PERSPECTIVE)
“Alone I can SPEAK
But Together We Can TALK
Alone I
Can SMILE
Together We Can LAUGH.
Alone I Can ENJOY
Together We Can CELEBRATE,
That’s the Beauty of
Togetherness”
-Anonymous
‘United we
stand, divided we fall’ (‘संगठन में शक्ति होती है’)
Please Note: The use of Figure
‘1’ (ONE) here symbolizes either of the Spouse (Husband or Wife)
NEGATIVE RELATIONSHIP:
- 1-1=0 (One
Minus One=Zero)
(One ‘MINUSES’ or
‘drains out’ another’s energy/potentials bringing the relationship to ZERO/
Mutually Destructive). The couple enters the autonomy stage (this is the stage
where you are painfully aware of your differences, canceling each other out,
invalidating the other’s point of view while defending your own, turning
against each other i.e. 1-1=0). When this happens, you both feel empty,
drained, vacant, and lifeless. At this point it is common for one or both
people to declare, ‘I’d be better off alone!’ And it makes sense that you would
feel that way, because a 1 (or even a 1/2) is more substantial than a 0!
· 1%1=1 (One
Divides Another=Also ‘Zero’ but mathematically it’s 1)
(One ‘DIVIDES’ another
which can bring the relationship to big ‘0’ / ZERO; Mutually Destructive;
Depletion of Positive Energy, as already explained above).
- 1X1=1 (Mathematically
One Multiplied to One equals ONE but if couple is behaving for ‘cross’
purposes then the result is ‘ZERO’ again) (One ‘CROSSES’ another
which can also bring the relationship to big ‘0’ / ZERO; Mutually
Destructive).
The signs used ABOVE ‘-’ (Minus); ‘X’ (Multiply/Cross); ‘%’ (Division) may depict some or all of the following traits in marital relationship:
v
Abusive Behavior and
Dishonesty
v
Extramarital Affairs
v
Missing Sex Life
v
Dominance, Threats and
Humiliation
v
Possessiveness/Over
Expectations
v
Contempt, Insult and
Criticism to put you down
v
Emotional Abuse/Denial and
Blame
v
Avoiding and Ignorance
v
Jealous
accusations/Comparisons
v
Yelling/Nagging
v
Physical Abuse, Violence,
Pulling hair, pushing or other negative behavior
v
Selfishness and Resentment
v
Laziness
v
Insecurity
POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP:
- 1+1=2 (One PLUS One
equals TWO which means a Strengthening and Complimentary Relationship)
The sign ‘+’ (PLUS) used here may depict some or all of the following traits in marital relationship:
ü
Respect Your Partner;
Agree to Disagree
ü
Trust and Confidence
ü
Be Supportive, Friendly and
Honest
ü
Respect Each Other’s Privacy
ü
Compromise and Compliment and
SHARE
ü
Speak up/Communicate
ü
Selfless and Cool
ü
Freshness and Healthy
Physical Intimacy
ü
Have Fun and Joy Together
ü
Fight Right: Fight well and
to De-escalate Conflicts
ü
Cherish your partner
ü
Be Real and aware of each
other’s strength and weaknesses
ü
Forgive
THE DIVINE RELATIONSHIP:
WHEN ONE AND ONE EQUALS ELEVEN and on into ETERNITY:
‘EK AUR EK GYARAH HOTE HAI’ (‘एक और एक ग्यारह होते है’) in ‘Hindi’ language.
This relationship is MADE in HEAVEN with DIVINE BLESSINGS, that is, 1 & 1, the two individuals forgetting individual identity and removing all their personal differences enhancing each other’s positive energy and supplementing each other in every aspect of life making them inseparable with TWO BODIES AND ONE SOUL RESULTING IN A MAGIC FIGURE OF ‘11’ (ELEVEN) and on into ‘INFINITY’.
NOW
THINK IT OVER AND DECIDE YOURSELF WHAT KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT IN YOUR
MARRIED LIFE.
“HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY -
2016”
Bhargava S. Yadhupathi
Scientific Vastu Consultant & Astrologer
(www.SimpleVastuLuck.com)
Scientific Vastu Consultant & Astrologer
(www.SimpleVastuLuck.com)
